<div dir="ltr">Spoons hurt more?<div><br></div></div><div class="gmail_extra"><br><br><div class="gmail_quote">On Thu, Jan 24, 2013 at 6:59 PM, Deno Vichas <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:deno@syncopated.net" target="_blank">deno@syncopated.net</a>></span> wrote:<br>
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      On 1/24/2013 6:23 PM, Anca Mosoiu wrote:<br>
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            On Thu, Jan 24, 2013 at 6:21 PM, Deno Vichas <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:deno@syncopated.net" target="_blank">deno@syncopated.net</a>></span> wrote:<br>
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                    On 1/24/2013 6:13 PM, Anthony Di Franco wrote:<br>
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                    <p>I think that, while the Constable should not
                      actually do any mediation, just documentation and
                      communication of what's documented, it makes sense
                      to have someone else act as Constable in a case
                      where the Constable is in the conflict. Defaulting
                      perhaps to an uninvolved volunteer, then Scribe,
                      then Facilitator.<br>
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            <div>They should duke it out using spoons, rubber
              chickens, and the world's dwindling supply of Hostess
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            <div>Anca.</div>
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              Deno Vichas <span dir="ltr"><<a href="mailto:deno@syncopated.net" target="_blank">deno@syncopated.net</a>></span>
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                      On 1/24/2013 6:13 PM, Anthony Di Franco wrote:<br>
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                      <p>I think that, while the Constable should not
                        actually do any mediation, just documentation
                        and communication of what's documented, it makes
                        sense to have someone else act as Constable in a
                        case where the Constable is in the conflict.
                        Defaulting perhaps to an uninvolved volunteer,
                        then Scribe, then Facilitator.<br>
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                  but what if the constable, the scribe, and the
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                      <p>The Constable should be encouraged, but not
                        required, to come from a race of shapeshifters,
                        or one regarded as gods by another, or to
                        possess either or both of those attributes by
                        other means, and to be brusque of manner and
                        exceptionally shrewd.</p>
                      <div class="gmail_quote">On Jan 24, 2013 5:44 PM,
                        "Yardena Cohen" <<a href="mailto:yardenack@gmail.com" target="_blank">yardenack@gmail.com</a>>
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                          I enthusiastically support a more formal and
                          clearer and well<br>
                          constructed conflict resolution process, even
                          though I'm not sure how<br>
                          I feel about the details yet, and thank you
                          Andrew for the initial<br>
                          brain dump!<br>
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                          I like the idea of a point-person for conflict
                          resolution but worry<br>
                          about having just one, because what happens
                          when someone has a<br>
                          conflict with them? For instance, I'd
                          volunteer for mediation in some<br>
                          conflicts but I have had my own conflicts with
                          people in the Sudoroom<br>
                          community so I don't know if I'd be eligible
                          in all cases, nor would<br>
                          anybody.<br>
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                          I do like the title "Constable" because it
                          reminds me of Odo in Deep Space Nine.<br>
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