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We have Rule #2 which is "Don't be a dick." as outlined here:<br>
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And yeah, we make (too many) signs:<br>
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<a class="moz-txt-link-freetext" href="http://wiki.milwaukeemakerspace.org/projects/dontbeadick">http://wiki.milwaukeemakerspace.org/projects/dontbeadick</a><br>
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<div class="moz-cite-prefix">On 1/27/14, 4:27 PM, Dave wrote:<br>
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<div dir="ltr">I'm considering adding "Don't be an asshole!" to
the top of our small list of rules. </div>
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<div class="gmail_quote">On Mon, Jan 27, 2014 at 1:21 PM,
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<div>Well, if you want to have nice things, you have
to keep the space nice. The first step would be
for someone to privately talk to this individual
and let them know they are getting out of hand.
Don't drop hints, don't be ambiguous, and do this
in person, not e-mail or over the phone.This
should be sufficient if we're talking someone who
is not crazy.<br>
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If this doesn't do it, subsequent warnings can come
in the form of their key not working, and some large
dudes having any further discussions outside the
space in the parking lot. The language can be rather
less polite if necessary.<br>
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Don't ever play games like "trying to keep the weirdo
guy away from the girls" or other passive-aggressive
BS. If you don't trust them to be in your space
unsupervised, they should not be in the space in the
first place. Whether they are useful to your space in
other ways is not the issue here. Someone will step up
to replace what you lost, but you can't replace trust.<br>
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We don't a new study in post-modern gender roles among
computer professionals to know what basic manners are
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<div class="h5">On Mon, Jan 27, 2014 at 7:59 AM,
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<p>Hi all. On our hackerspaces there is this
person very active in the community of older age
(60ish), who started giving presents to a 26
year old staff member and asking her to report
when she got home because he worried somehing
would happen to her. Than he sent an email
saying he was in love with this member and that
he had expectations ,but all was lost when he
found out she had a boyfriend. The staff member
told him she wasnt intrested and to please keep
distance, respectfuly. After that he kept
sending emails saying that he needed this staff
memers attention to keep proactive in the maker
community. He sent another present<br>
This staff memer is tired of this, is doing an
ignore strategy but this person insists a lot.
Also the conmunity at the hackersoace love him
and learn a lot from him so its difficult to
just ban. </p>
<p>What do you recomend for this? How can
communicate with ths person so he stops
bothering the staff? Do you consider his
behavior arrasement?</p>
<p>Ill really appreceate answers</p>
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